Talk about sex with your partner before you start. Tell your partner what you like...
Talking about sex
When you have sex with someone, it's perfectly normal to talk about it. How else can you let them know what you want? And how else do you know what turns your partner on? See also talking about condom use with your partner and talking about contraception with your partner.
What do you want?
What do you want to do when making love? And what would you prefer not to do? Everyone...